The idea of getting drunk and being cool

X: Lets get some beer when you're here!

Y: Sure, excited to see u!

Z: Well, you don't drink dear....

I just arrived home from Friday Night's out with my senior in campus. I keep on thinking about being invited to have some drinks. Shall i say Yes or Shall i say no? If we say No, people rather will think of us in negative perspective; if we say yes, we somehow find ourselves out of place. But those thoughts are actually immature yet happening in reality. Or i can say that's the least thing of a wise person can think about.

Its funny because we want people to adapt our values, rules and regulations yet we don't give chance to understand others'.

I'm not coming because I don't drink or I'm not coming because its bad or I'm not coming because I don't wanna pay for that (well, that's a cheap reason for not coming :p). We made indirect reason to avoid the chance of understanding others' values, rules and regulations.  

If life is all about being safe in comfort zone then there'll be no learning, no realization about how cool life is, and most of it there'll be no wise man.

I'm not saying that the idea of getting drunk is alright but the idea of enjoying life, get out of your comfort zone, say Yes if you think it does challenge your life. Whether its cool or not, rather it does not matter. It's not about what we face, its about the process, the idea of enjoying it and have it as adventure. We don't have to change our values in order to understand others'. Have things under your skin and learning comes within ourselves on how we digest it, and last not least, saying Yes is good. Say Yes not because you want to please others but take it as adventure in life. And I know, you know where and when you have to say or NO!

Be happy and Enjoy life! .... Let your LIGHT shines in the darkness.

with love,

Rence

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