Having the right attitude towards future

I'm having a little bit argument with Mariana about future. Specifically about ''someone" we want in our future. It was started when I said I pray for this man I literally put him in every my pray, not because I want him or any kind of feeling but I feel like to pray for him, no big reason at all. And then Mariana asked if I like him or any kind of feeling or wanting this man, of course No. This is how its really started.

I said I want a guy who can support me spiritually, physically even financially. Well I'm not being materialistic but we....we need to make a life and I don't have any interest of making an average life. In spiritual speaking I am the daughter of the most high God, I am beyond blessed so I have no reason to make an average life. In secular perspective and right attitude, I am taking my degree now, will graduate (of course), will work, having a great family as my backup, I have no reason again to make an average life. Some people might think, Oh Girl you're too exaggerate and arrogant! Well that's make sense, I accept it.

Mariana said it's okay to pray for something big but don't expect something big or the same thing will come. We do not know what will happen in the future and she said that's okay to be average.

No, I don't want to be average. I am living an extraordinary life here in the Philippines. I wander here alone, I am on my own, I am doing very well. And this is the result of me in the past having the right attitude where I have this thought that I must to go abroad for the better future. And this is what I am doing now, I live abroad, God gives me chance to go to school here.

All these stuffs about FUTURE, it is all about having the "RIGHT ATTITUDE". You're not really going to let things happen without planning them first. I interpret the words "LET YOUR WILL BE DONE IN ME, LORD" as me as a human plan all these dreams to build my future and after that I give it all back to God and I keep saying "Lord I know this is what you want for me but if its NOT i know you have BIGGER even BIGGEST plan upon me and this future. But I am super sure He has no average plans upon me. He has upgraded me this much into this level, I have dreamed and keep dreaming big things and something big surely will happen.

I really really want to encourage people that having the right attitude towards future is NECESSARY! We really need to know what we want for our future and believe me God has something big and it is NOT AVERAGE plan! He will never give average plan.
And don't be average! We should aware that we are SPECIAL, EXTRAORDINARY, BEAUTIFUL, BEYOND BLESSED and far away from the word "average".


Cheers for the beautiful future with beautiful people in it!
-Renc!